If I argue with you, it’s a good thing. It means I actually like you and am actually interested in what you are saying. It means I’m engaged, engaging in actual communication with a person, whom I like, which is rare and does not happen often. Or it could mean I think you’re a complete tit with lame opinions and I’m arguing out of frustration and trying to get my educated, critical point across. You choose. If I’m quiet around a person, it’s also a good thing. It means I’m nervous and well…. shy. Or it could mean I really, really, really don’t like you and I want no interaction with you at all. You choose. I’m a breathing contradiction.